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Selfish.Yes, I saidselfish.
30 days. 30 practical steps. Starting the 1st of December. Check in to yourself now, and walk into 2027 as the woman you keep promising you’ll become.
Over 1,000 women checked in for November
The advice I give every single time
Put yourself first to get the life you want.
Same answer. Every single bloody time.
I’ve been telling you the same thing for years. Put yourself first to get the life you want! Put yourself first to make him obsessed! I’ve said it till I’m blue in the face.
Being unbothered? Put yourself first. Getting over him, stopping the over-functioning, coming back to you? Same answer. Every single bloody time.
I JUST realised what I never gave you.
The how.
I told you what to do a thousand times. I never sat down and handed you the actual steps. And knowing it isn’t the same as doing it.
So that’s what this is.
Marg x
Why December
2027 is your year. Lock in.
Every January you promise yourself a new you. Hotter. Richer. More unbothered. Finally with the partner who adores you. And every year, somewhere around February, she quietly disappears again.
It’s not that you didn’t want it enough. It’s that you waited for the new year to start. This year you don’t wait. You spend December becoming her, one selfish step a day, so you walk into the new year already the best version of yourself.
The same resolutions as last year
Waiting to feel hot enough
Waiting to feel rich enough, unbothered enough
Waiting for him to finally choose you
Walking into 2027 already her.
Your stay, floor by floor
Thirty floors.
Thirty mornings.
Every floor is a day of December. Press one and watch yourself go up. Sincerely, this is everything I’ve learned over years of working with women and working on myself. It’s how you stop treating yourself like an option and start giving yourself the time and energy you give everyone else. It’s how you put yourself back at the centre of your own life.
And win.
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A word from the front desk
Selfish, Marg?
Controversial, I know.
But if you’re ninety-nine percent selfless and you get a little bit more selfish, the world will survive. In fact, it will be better for it.
And even if you go all in, you’ll end up maybe one percent selfish, because you’re already so selfless.
The most selfish women are the most loved women.
Your itinerary
For thirty days, you’re first.
And like me, you’re going to start building the life you actually want.
New for December · Live
Meet me in the lobby.
Halfway through your stay, I’m coming downstairs. Pour yourself a drink, whatever you like, and come and sit with me in the lobby for a live chat.
Bring the question you’d only ask me if we were alone: the boyfriend, the business, the money, the voice in your head. Just you, me and the women of Room 30.
Your reservation
- Thu 17December9:30am Sydney time. Live with me for 45 to 60 minutes.
- YourquestionThink of one before you come down, then ask me live on the call.
- Can’tmake it?The replay goes into your dashboard so you can catch it with your morning coffee.
Reservations
Your room is waiting.
Doors are open now and close on Tuesday the 1st of December at 1pm Sydney time. Day 1 kicks off that morning, and when it’s done, it’s done for a while.
Check-in has closed. See you next time x
Doors close 1 Dec, 1pm Sydney · Check-in 1 Dec · 120 days access
Last call for check-in
If something in you just went yes, that’s your answer.
Try it, baby girl.
I love you lots like jelly tots,
Marg xHotel Selfish · Selfish 30 · The December Stay
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Before you check in.
Everything guests usually ask at the front desk. Still wondering about something? Email [email protected]
The stay
What is Selfish 30, exactly?+
Thirty days of choosing you. Every day you get a five-minute video from me and one practical step to take that day. You also get The Diary, tick-off charts, phone wallpapers, a live “Meet me in the lobby” call with me and a private WhatsApp lounge with the other women checking in.
Is this only about relationships?+
Not at all. It’s for women who want to be the best version of themselves: feeling hotter, richer, more unbothered and more chosen. Some steps touch on dating and love, but most are about you: your time, your money, your body, your work and your confidence.
Why start in December, not January?+
Because January is when everyone starts, and February is when everyone stops. Do the work in December and you walk into 2027 already her, not just hoping to be. The steps are small on purpose, about five minutes plus the step, so they fit around the end-of-year chaos.
When does it start?+
Check-in is Tuesday 1 December. Day 1 unlocks that morning, and a new day unlocks every morning after that at 6am Sydney time (AEDT), right through to Day 30 on Wednesday 30 December.
How much time will it take each day?+
About five minutes to watch, plus the step itself. The steps are small on purpose, so they fit into a real life, not an imaginary one.
What if I miss a day or fall behind?+
No guilt, no starting over. Once a day unlocks it stays open for the rest of your access, so you can catch up whenever you need to. Christmas Day off? Pick up on Boxing Day.
What’s in your room
What is The Diary?+
Three beautiful printable volumes, ten nights each. Every night has my own diary entry about what that day’s selfish step taught me, followed by a journal page with a question just for you. Read one a night, then write your own.
What is “Meet me in the lobby”?+
A live call with me on Thursday 17 December at 9:30am Sydney time, for 45 to 60 minutes. Grab a drink, whatever you like, bring a question if you have one, and ask me live. Can’t make it? The replay will be in your dashboard.
Do I have to join the WhatsApp group?+
No, it’s optional, but it’s where the magic happens. It’s women-only and run by my team. Drop a DONE each day, find your accountability girls, and tag #selfish30 on Instagram so I can reshare you.
Where do I watch the videos?+
Inside your Selfish 30 dashboard, on your phone or laptop. As soon as you check out you’ll get an email with your login, and The Diary, tick-off charts and wallpapers are waiting for you straight away.
How long do I have access?+
You have 120 days from your purchase date to watch the videos and download your resources, so grab anything you want to keep before then. The WhatsApp lounge is open for the 30 days of the challenge. Full details are in the Selfish30 Challenge Agreement.
Reservations
I did it in November. Can I check in again?+
Yes, and plenty of guests will. A second stay hits differently because you’re a different woman walking in.
How much is it?+
One payment of $117 USD for all thirty nights. Your bank will convert it to your local currency at checkout.
When do doors close?+
Check-in closes on Tuesday 1 December at 1pm Sydney time (that’s Monday 30 November, 9pm Eastern / 6pm Pacific in the US). If you join on the 1st, Day 1 is waiting for you straight away. Once doors close, they’re closed for a while.
What’s your refund policy?+
You can read the full details in our refund policy. If you have any trouble at all, email the front desk and we’ll look after you.