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Boundaries: A Crucial Key to Black Cat Energy

by Margarita Nazarenko
Jan 29, 2025
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A woman with boundaries = Inconvenient and happy 

Boundaries are so incredibly important in dating, relationships, friendships, and in essentially everything in life. Work, food, even boundaries with yourself, allow us to be more disciplined in our time and energy and ultimately lead us to fulfillment and self-confidence, and achieving the relationships we want and deserve. As women, we know that what we do with our time and energy are extremely important to our happiness. 

And yet so many people, especially women, struggle to establish boundaries. Did you know, for example, 58% of Americans have trouble saying ‘no’ to others? And of those, 65% are women. Why is this? 

I talk about being an ‘inconvenient woman’ (it’s a good thing) for many reasons. An inconvenient woman is more strategic and ‘stingy’, AKA more selective with who and what she gives her precious time and energy to. 

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