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Hit Rock Bottom? Rebuild Yourself in 8 Steps

by Margarita Nazarenko
Jan 29, 2025
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Let’s get real for a second. As we know, life isn’t always rainbows and butterflies. 

 

Sometimes the person you thought was your soul mate has other plans. Or perhaps that dream career you were working towards all the sudden feels out of reach. Whether it’s a breakup that shattered your heart, a job loss that knocked the wind out of you, or just the cumulative weight of life’s challenges, hitting rock bottom is tough.

But I will tell you one thing: I’ve hit rock bottom several times in my life, and every single time I came out of it a better, stronger, elevated version of myself. It’s crazy how the most difficult times in our lives are the times that truly shape us into the 2.0 and 3.0 versions of ourselves. I know it doesn’t seem fair, but maybe you needed this to force you to grow, yeah?

So today I’m going to break down how you can use this time to completely rebuild yourself to come out of this rocky period as a freaking diamond. Trust me, you’re a warrior. It’s time to show the world what you’re made of.

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