Don’t Waste Your Time – 5 Signs You’re His Placeholder and Not His Dream Girl

by Margarita Nazarenko

Jan 29, 2025

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I’m holding your hand when I tell you, you may be a placeholder in your relationship. What does this mean, and how do you know if you are one? I break it down here.

Girl, I’m holding your hand through this blog. If any of these signs resonate with you, this is going to be a tough blog to read.

But if you’ve been following me for a while, you know I want what’s best for you. So, you know when I tell you that you are wasting your time, it’s because I think your time and energy are extremely valuable as a woman.

This said, let’s get into it. What is a placeholder exactly, and how is it different than the dream girl?

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Don’t Waste Your Time – 5 Signs You’re His Placeholder and Not His Dream Girl

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